Some men have the grace to step aside humbly and encourage the women in their lives to be themselves. If society as a whole would do so, who knows what percentage of the female population would allow themselves full expression of their true feelings and desires?The number might be much higher than anyone imagines. Men enjoy watching women make love because they instinctively know it is a core part of their nature, which, if expressed, makes them more fully realized, fulfilled, and happy. All men should want that for them.
I had a lesbian affair with my husbands cousin Cathie for almost 25 years before my husband walked in on us in the 69 position. We didn't know what to expect from him but pleasantly surprised when he asked if he could watch and videotape us. We didn't know what to say but yes, and ten years later we are still happy with our relationship.